|Is it a wonderful life?|
The idea of a nostalgic Christmas in a small ancient village with my family sounds idyllic. We have been to Brugge and what a great experience that was. In all this cold weather I have been thinking about the hot cocoa "Belgian" style. Just the memory alone of the hot drink by the fire in the most quaint of tea shops warms me up. Strolling the cobblestone streets looking at wooden toys and cookie presses, snagging some chocolate ganache from the chocolatier in her closet sized shop made this whimsical place completely unforgettable. I can only imagine how wonderful it would be to visit during Christmas. All five of these European destinations at Christmas seem to capture all that we try to copy and paste here in America when we dream of the "perfect Christmas".
Unfortunately in our version we try too hard and often overshoot. In all honesty what I dream of to create a magical memory for our children would probably end up in their disappointment. They would get cranky and bored and expect something more. We glamorize the idea of the holiday and the joy of creating gingerbread houses and watching old movies is short lived and often ends up with someone getting frustrated and a huge mess on the floor. But being the "dreamer" I am I will cling on to that hope that an old European style Christmas is still feasible.
-Written by Shannon JonesHere in North Carolina, like almost everywhere we have streets of Christmas lights, holiday foods and celebration. Perhaps it's not so much we're trying to re-capture the perfect "original" holiday, but that we're trying to recapture our childhood.
Christmas Lights and Activities for the Holidays
1) Winterfest Skating Rink
Downtown Greensboro's winter wonderland skating rink opens November 16th for $8 per person. (N. Davie Street) Combined with the Festival of Lights, (http://festivaloflightsgso.org/) there's a lot going on downtown.
Take a nice walk down Elm Street to see the beautiful, cheerful holiday lighting and decorations. You'll also hear music playing and see strolling carolers as you walk around downtown. Hand bell choirs, UNC-G's tuba band, and local church choirs are some of the melodic entertainers. The Nutcracker on stilts, holiday characters and Santa should be there! Last year, in 2006, kids were given free holiday antlers!
|Christmas Light Display in Greensboro|
Fly like an angel over Christmas lights and an animated fire and ice laser light show. Strap your crotch to metal cable and fly like Santa through the suburb of Climax.
3) Candy Cane Lane (AKA Sunset Hills Neighborhood) Christmas Lights Display
Perhaps one of the most popular Christmas lights displays is the Christmas Balls that adorn Ridgeway and Greenway drive in Greensboro off of Market Street. Traffic is insane, and it may be worth parking on a side street and walking.
4) Southern Supreme Fruitcakes.
|Berta Scott's dream came true with her fruit cake showroom.|
First and foremost, I don't like fruitcake. I don't know anyone that does. They call this fruitcake, but what it is: is amazing.Tons of people make the annual pilgrimage to Southern Supreme in Bear Creek NC to pick these up, just 45 miles south of Greensboro. It's a local family owned fruit cake business which now does mail-order and phone sales on their world famous Scott family recipe of fruit cakes, and they're insanely good. The recommendation is the Southern Supreme which starts out around $7 for an 8 oz bar. The box warns the cake is "more nuts than fruit fruitcake", which is probably why everyone loves it.
On a curvy road right out of Dukes of Hazzard, on a converted farm lies a Cracker Barrel looking warehouse and store. We pulled in, walked right up and found a bright and clean storefront with a colorful woman running around cheerfully welcoming us in a southern accent. At the door is a ledger to sign-in for their newsletter. Colorful boxes stacked like Christmas presents, baskets, and a taste-testing area fill the space. You might find it odd to walk into this kitschy Carolina favorite of locals and find huge shopping baskets, for fruit cake? But, it can't be helped... We walked out spending almost $70 at this place. You can't help it. Golden wrapped one and two pound boxes of fruitcake stacked six feet tall beckon you, call you, sing to you "Liv, this is your day, enjoy it!" This is your chance to be a kid in a candy shop, to be Willie Wonka. To realize all this can be yours with a credit card swipe on a magic machine. No wonder they have a dual checkout.
Chocolate, nuts, candied peaches and fruit cake.
5) Tanglewood Festival of Lights.
|Munchies? Smores are delicious as the Festival of Lights.|
Even better you can stop by TJ's Deli, a former Greensboro institution, now only available in Winston Salem for a #60 Sicilian.
The best part of the Festival of Lights is the 3/4 point stop at the fire pit. They ask for $4.00 for a smore kit, and put a sign up guilting you not to bring your own due to the cost of operating the lights. (What's their power-bill?) It was too late for Shan who had meticulously planned out her clothing attire to hold a bag of marshmallows, a block of graham crackers, several Hershey's bars and quartet of coat hangers. Luckily no one commented, and we quickly constructed smores for our family, while remembering back in years past. Like the one when we brought a friend who had originated from the U.K. and was introduced to an American smore for the first time around that very fire ring at the Festival of Lights. Truthfully it never gets old. Still my favorite is the golfer, a football field long light display that interactively moves the ball from the swinging golfer across the green.
6) Chinqua Penn Holiday Tours
From November 25, to January 1st, Chinqua Penn, the closer, more redneck version of the Biltmore Estate is decorated for the holidays, including thirteen themed trees throughout the 27 room mansion. Go on a Saturday (Nov 27, Dec 3) if you'd like a candle-lit tour, and enjoy live music throughout the manor. Be warned, at $20 a head, enjoying someone else's treasures aren't cheep. <more.>
7) It's a Wonderful Life at the Carolina Theatre
|Sentimental, patriotic, "Capra Corn!"|
So last night I went with some friends to see "Its a Wonderful Life" at the Carolina Theater in Downtown Greensboro. They had an organist playing Christmas Carols on the organ which would have been a nice touch if the organ hadn't made them sound so creepy.
The theater itself (if you haven't been) is a real classic. Big balcony and ornate details add to the nostalgic feel. I was at first rather disappointed when I got my first glimpse of the screen. It was small (even for the films aspect ratio of 1:33) and there were visible defects. I really tend overlook such things at this venue though as one might argue that it could add to the ambiance. The seats were old and rocking. I'm sure that these were once a step above the average theatrical fold outs, but in the modern day of cinema they seemed uncomfortable and annoying. When someone would be walking behind you and reached down to brace themselves, you would flip backwards. Another annoying aspect of the seating layout and presentation were the heads of the people in front of you getting in the way. This could be fixed by simply raising the screen hight about 3 feet but I'm not sure that's feasible. They served alcohol which is ALWAYS a plus in my book, and the lobby was spacious and inviting. The staff was very friendly and the audience was enthusiastic.
Presentation aside, what made the night special for everyone was the audience. It was thrilling to laugh along with group at the humor and sniffle with them at the sentimental. Everyone was engaged and captivated by this film that most of us had seen a thousand times. What was interesting (and what I LOVE about the movies) is that you could hear the comments of the audience to the scenes.
I would hear "I don't remember this" or "Wow I completely forgot that" and not to mention the adults explaining some of the more intricate plot points to their kids, all reminded me that even though people had seen the film a million times, how many of those times had people actually WATCHED it? When it comes on TV every year we have cell phones ringing, email to catch up on, kids needing baths, and video games that need conquering. The magic of the theater is this: It forces you take time out of your life and engulf yourself in a story. You pick up on the details, you see things on the big screen you might never catch at home, and the emotional impact is often greater.
One of my all time favorite scenes in the film is when George (Jimmy Stewart) is at the train station to meet his brother who is coming back (or so he thinks) to run the Baily Savings and Loan. When he discovers his brother is now married, the camera pushes into George as the weight of what this means to his plans for the future sinks in. You can see his dreams extinguished as the world seemingly stops, and as the camera follows him for a beat, it pulls back to reveal the group again as he confirms what he already knows. Scenes like this will always look better on a large format. Im not sure I know why that is. Maybe its because it captures more of the nuances in those master actors that can handle the subtlety.
So, rousing applause at the films completion, and beers at McCouls finished the night for us.
So, although the Carolina has some technical issues, it was a real pleasure seeing this classic again with people I care about and my extended family of Greensboro. With that I leave you with this:
"Remember that no man is a failure who has friends. Thanks for the wings"
-Written by Sanjuro.